Golden Weekend

That's hospital doctor lingo for "no call: no pagers." Ryan got home and he was surprised with a half-packed suitcase going to:So we were off. Just 90 miles away to visit the Newport Aquarium.

Cincinnati was surprisingly a really beautiful city! We stayed at the Millenium hotel and saw this guy at check-in. He was surrounded by an entourage and I finally asked someone what the hoopla was about. Of course (shouldn't I have known?) he was an Ultimate Fighting Champ. (Are you impressed Cory and Cari?)

Ryan said he felt like he had gotten "call" night sleep though. Emma fell off the bed twice. We all shared 2 double beds, alternated sleeping arrangements like 10 times throughout the night, and yet still made it to the Aquarium right before it opened.

At the otter exhibit:

Ryan trying to close the jaws of a simulated shark:

We walked through several long tunnels giving us the impression of being in the tank. It really was amazing. Sometimes the floor was even glass.

The "Dive Team" workers were great with the onlookers. Ryan played (best out of 3) Rock-Paper-Scissors with one of them.


Right over our heads. We could stand still and yet were so entertained with the constantly moving scenery.

Petting the safe sharks:

and we could not believe the speed of these guys:

An above ground shot of the tank. This is just a portion if it.

We left at noon, drove to put the babies to sleep, I had a nap, we found a great park on the river and had a picnic and then went back and did the whole museum again. It was so perfect- I wish we had more "golden weekends", but perhaps with a bit better sleep.

(Oh, one more thing. I was so happy to have Ryan home for church! We had a great breakfast and everyone was ready on time and then we got to church and no one was there. OOPS! It was Stake Conference- 2 hours earlier. So, we had "church" at home. On "Good, Better, Best" . We used a single chocolate chip, a small candy bar, and a large candy bar to illustrate this. The day was salvaged.)

To My Mom:

One of the biggest reasons

I love my Grandma so much is that she had YOU

51 years ago today.

Tanner says, "Happy Birthday Grandma today." I'd like to add, I think you are due every year for a repeat of your 50th Surprise Birthday party. That was a serious paaaarty. And I hope you have just as good of one this year... minus all the family. But still with a great, to-die-for,chocolate cake (that you will probably have to make yourself since you are the best at it.) How I really really wish we were there to enjoy (the cake) and celebrate you. To the Happiest Birthday of all Mom! I love you. #2

A Form of Communication

(Let me try this again.. dang Blogger)



I mentioned in a previous post that Landon has some crazy signing skills. I bet the Jones 2nd cousins would be impressed. And yes, he is hitting his face. But it sure doesn't slow his speed. Emma is the background chatter.

Translation anyone?

Just check

check, checkn' in.

I didn't respond quickly enough to Emma and the "Helll-lo" left her mouth. The kind of "Helll-lo' that I say. And my sisters says. And it completely stopped me and made me laugh. Oh the things I hope never come out of my mouth to be repeated by my 2 year old.

We went and got flu shots this past week. Ryan was home to help. True fear emerged from Emma provoking Landon's panic and the shell-shock look on Tanner's face. He was stoic though and did not cry a tear. Emma on the other hand? I think she would have ran away from the nurse if she could have. (Mom swears I did that once, but I think she is confusing me with sister #1 Summer. She was there at the time too.) We have to go back for a booster shot for each of them in one month. Oh dear. I will admit that Ryan and I had a nice laugh during the whole event. I like that Ryan sees funny in most things. That is not my strong point.

At this point: Halloween costumes almost ready (check). PIF boxes gone and a distant memory (check). Save-the-Date Postcards for the infamous Bergloff family reunion (almost done... although I think cousin Jess could do them better.) New calling for me (check). That is... Ward Activities Dinner Group Organizer. Pretty fun stuff. I'm just working it out in my mind still but if there are any ideas floating around out there send them my way. (Someone has to know more than me about this-)

Tanner has school pajama day tomorrow and then he is off Friday and all next week. I am actually looking forward to it. Landon is too- he thinks Tanner is the craziest thing around. Oh, you know what's crazy? Watching Landon do sign-language. Thanks to some cousins, via my mom, I have some kid signing movies. Wait til I show you Landon's version. Stay tuned.

And the PIF winners are:

To clarify and legitimize my drawing:

Names were written on strips of paper placed in a cup, held by me, and drawn by Tanner witnessed by Ryan. Completely worthy of a legal stock exchange, I'm certain.

Congratulations To:

1. STEPHANIE H.

2. MELISSA B.

3. CARLA H.

and I scraped up one more box for the final draw of

4. HEATHER D.

That's how it went down. Thanks to all who entered. Thanks for the newbies that introduced themselves. Thanks to this blogging world that I am so treated to read and enjoy the lives of so many of you ladies. I am inspired and motivated and am at times fascinated with all that is done in each of your lives. Thank you for sharing with this plain old girl like me. I can't wait to see what these girls do and who gets the gets the joy of receiving these girls PIF's. OOOOOO (that's hugs to you all.)

So, winners, please email me at: rlw0625@hotmail.com your mailing address. I will drop these in the mail tomorrow. Or maybe the next. But soon.

Pay It Forward Exchange

ends tomorrow. I'll post results at night, my time. Thanks for all who entered!

Pay It Forward Exchange

I'm finally ready to send my boxes. Whew, finally! Do you want one? Just as a premise on how this happened. I frequent the blog of The Mandee Grant, whom I've never met, and noticed that she was "interviewed" via blog on the well-noted c jane . C jane was "Paying It Forward" (PIF) to her readers by using her personal interview skills on 3 of her readers that would be posted on her well frequented blog. Mandee was picked and according to Mandee "this was the HIGHLIGHT of her blogging life!" and in return for this interview Mandee had to PIF to her readers as well, some craft or personal like. So, myself a lurker and reader, I left a comment on Mandee's blog when her exchange was posted. I was brave. It was my first comment there. Well, she picked me. She also picked my good friend Jocelyn. Jocelyn launched her own PIF and I won that too. DOUBLE WHAMMY. And, I really never win anything. Ever. I even try to hit the mega-millions every once in a while. No luck.

So, I get to Pay It Forward to my blog readers.

Here's how it works:

1. You must have your own blog to perpetuate the Pay It Forward Exchange/Craft. YOU MUST Pay It Forward! I would love to know what the chosen do- I'm nosey like that.

2. You must enter by making a comment with something interesting about yourself.

3. You have until Monday night, October 15th. We will draw at Family Home Evening.

4. I will pick 3 of the commenter's randomly (or Tanner will). Now, I know I should technically do 6, since I won two PIF's, but I can't. Let me explain.

I am not "perfected" (so to say) in much. I can sew, but would never sew for anyone. I can't paint, or draw, or sing or quilt or make pots or blow glass or do a handstand. So, I really struggled to define my craft. This I do know about myself. I love Christmas. Hence my Pay It Forward: Christmas Package.

I did spend some thought on this (too much says my husband). It began to take over my home. It has also kept me in stall mode for other things I have needed to get done. That's why I only have 3 boxes. But, I tried my very homemade best on some items and purchased the rest. It includes: cookie cutter tree ornaments, felted snow mitt clothespins for gift bags, an oil burner from The Body Shop with a gingerbread oil, a leather jingle bell door knocker, and a well-loved treat. (HEY- Don't knock this stuff! I very much like it all!)

So, this was fun. It did require effort. I will be glad to pass this on. Especially to Jocelyn and Mandee (yes, I have a box for both of you ladies). How often do you get to give a gift of just things that you like and like to craft with no thought of what the recipient likes? Not very often. I was able to take some time thinking just about me. That's okay to do once in a while. I hope whoever gets my boxes will come to like these things as much as I do. And I tried my best, "So that in little time everyone on this planet will have some sort of craft from the heart- cjane".

If you want my PIF box, but mainly the attachment of starting your own PIF, let me know it now. All 3 of you please.

ps- thanks Kathryn for the photo

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UPDATE 10/9: Thanks Mandee! I got your PIF package today. It was nicely waiting on my porch. I felt like it was Christmas! I loved it all- but mostly that these are things you like. Thank you. I will especially savor the Dear Lizzie- alone by myself. And I'm not sharing. Even with Ryan. (Check out Mandee's blog for a great package description. I fear my posts are too long. )

Landon's First Haircut

Landon was looking shaggy. To cut his hair we went. In the chair:
Finishing up:
"All better," said Emma. She thought we were at the doctor.

On my mind

I am glad that Tanner told me his runny nose was "crying" it reminded me that he is still so little and exactly what I am blessed to have. I struggled to keep calm in my house for General Conference weekend, Ryan was working and did not get home til mid-Sunday and yet I still was able to jot down a few things that resignated when spoken, especially Elder Packer saying, "All are capable of Heavenly Father's help". Yes, even me. And I loved Sister Becks talk. Because I felt the truth of what she said, that a mom does know. I have been to visit with a new adoptive mom and think of my dearest friend and it makes me love her more for her faith and all the hope she shows. I spoke to my sister-in-law who just had her new baby. She prays for faith to not worry and feels His help. I needed to hear this. In the morning after Tanner gets off, I get the other 2 up and hold them and kiss them, one in each arm and Emma won't let me let go. Of her or Landon. Perfect. I could sit all day.

Five Stars

My family knows I am always in search of the best roll recipe. In case I can't make rolls from scratch, I found these:
These rolls are as good as homemade. I PROMISE. They are in the grocery store freezer section. $2.79 for 10. And Sam's has them in bulk. Ready in minutes and I swear they can compete against the best Parker House roll you've ever had. Don't believe me? Believe my kids and their friend Ellie who said, "These are better than doughnuts!" Perfect for Dinner of course and General Conference weekend.

Just hatched!

Ryan's littlest sister had her second baby girl this morning. How much I wish I could be there. Dangit. That always happens, we miss all the big events. Congratulations to Jill and Joe and the cutest big sister, Macee Maryn.

Kynzlee Dawn

8 pounds 9 ounces

20 inches

6:40 in the morning

What I Know:

If you are going to watch Cinderella- a Twist in Time you must wear the blue dress. Not the pink, according to Emma.

Crafty

I'm in the middle of trying to craft something for my Pay It Forward contest. Certainly it should not be that hard? I'm trying. Anyhow, my box is a holiday box and I will release more info later to those (few) of you interested in winning my craft/likes and thus giving your craft/likes away as well. Get it? Pay It Forward. (Blame it all on first, The Mandee Grant and then my really talented friend, Jocelyn Delgado.)


Well, I ventured down to Hobby Lobby today. Okay, it was a bit of a drive and did put me at my max of manageable time out with the kids. And they each had 3 or 10 suckers or so while I shopped. But, let me just say what a HIDDEN GEM. What in the world! Get to your Hobby Lobby. Great prices, great selection, CLEAN, organized and I spent 90 minutes there. With the kids. That must mean I really liked it. I know, I know, Melissa B. and my mom told me. And a few others. Now I get it. I gotta get my craft on now.


For my Bakersfield friends: Michaels x 12... you girls would love it.

Balloon Glow- the best festival around

The annual event of the Louisville Balloon Glow started this weekend. Touted to be in the top 5 in the nation for hot air balloon festivals, a gathering of 85 balloons at dusk "light" their inflated balloons. The glow and warmth from the balloons is awesome. You can get as close as you want and I love watching the teams work together to get them up. Every balloon rise from the ground got an applause from Emma and it really is so fascinating. It's almost as magical as Disneyland. ALMOST. I'm a dork like that.

(Forgive my camera. It's lived its' life. I'm still trying to replace it. Pictures are spotty.)

(That's NOT Ryan between the kids.)

(THIS is Ryan squinting. He's blaming the camera.)

( And this is blurry. But, shows the magic.)

I need a new camera~ before next years glow.

I'm a serious cook now.

Thanks to this super cute apron from Heather D., these turned out well. I feel so gourmet when I wear it! Just a shout out to this girl that sews and paper crafts and shares all of her talents so well. I am graced with her goodness often. Her blog will be a fun one to read. She's just getting started, and I bet Martha Stewart would claim her "A good thing".

He Placed in Weird Science

Ryan's research project this past month:

"Healthcare Associated Pneumonia Treated as Community Acquired Pneumonia Compared to Community Acquired Pneumonia Patients Treated with the same Therapy."

Yep. That's it in a nutshell. He won 3rd place in his conference and has an invitation to go to Washington DC in May. There he will present again.

I am hoping to join him, without the kids. I have a babysitter (mom please come) in mind.

Don't you love when you see your spouse succeed? And excel too? But, the best part for me is that I have this best friend and husband and father that no matter what success he has, puts us first. Always. 100% non-negotiable. That's what makes him the gold ribbon, first place, grand prize. And he didn't even have to win the 3rd place for me to know it.

Up in Flames, Down the Drain

So I have these little brothers that did something ghastly once. I was in the 9th grade when the first one came along (Jacob) and 13 months later came Isacc. I thought they were the cutest babies to ever exist. I would be so excited to come home from school to see them and hold them and if someone ever asked me if they were mine (like they thought I was a teen mom or something) I remember being a little flattered. They were that cute.

When Jacob was 3, and Isacc was obviously 2, I left for college at Utah State. (They really have never remembered me living at home with them, but my mom swears when they really hit those rough teen years they are coming my way. So, maybe I will live with them again.)

Well, on a frequent call home during my first year, I could tell I had called at the wrong time. My mom was a bit "overwhelmed" sounding. She mentioned that "the boys" had started a fire. A plastic spewing, seriously smoking, stenchy fire. That escaped from the living room fireplace to hit the ceiling. I knew my Grandma was coming to help. What in the world I thought? Who was watching them?

Come to find out, the fire started as a small appropriate fire in the fireplace. But while my mom was on the phone they took their blankies and piled their toys on them and then dragged their blankies to the fireplace and threw each of their toys in. Hence the plastic spewing. When I came home for break the smoke damage was still present. And 10 years later my brothers still have not lived it down.

This flashback memory hit me tonight during bath time for Emma and Landon. I was bathing them and vacuuming at the same time. ( We were watching them people.) We had a really full afternoon and Ryan was talking on the phone trying to get out the door for his night shift and I heard normal laughing and saw them both. They would yell at me and I would talk back to them and there was a sporadic THUD but it did not cause me too much concern. Until, I went closer. Their electronic toys were in the bath with them! The toy closet is right by the bath tub and Emma must have hopped in and out and grabbed them one by one (I said we were watching them!) So, as I looked in the bath of toys and just a little water, I instantly thought of that toy fire. And thought once again, "Who was watching them?"

I say Ryan for sure.

I HAVE THE CURE

for sleep training a baby.

I have (let me stress this) ACCIDENTALLY been taking sleeping pills at night instead of a nasal decongestant. For like a good week. The doctor in the house told me to take the "aqua" pills from his medicine cubby. So, I did and noticed:

1. Landon would wake up and cry at night, but I was too tired/groggy to get up out of bed and get him and I clearly would tell my mind, "give him just a minute more and see if he can work it out and then go get him." BUT, my body was too tired. And he must not have cried that long because it did not bug me as much (shall I say sleeping pill hangover?).

But, last night when I was taking my "nasal decongestant" Ryan and I were talking in the kitchen and he said, "HEY! Wait a minute! WHAT have you been taking? THIS?" and he proceeded to laugh so hard at me I thought he was going to choke. He said it's the "other aqua pill, don't you read?"

So, I took the real nasal decongestant last night. I did not sleep so soundly. I woke up. Landon slept through the night. He should. He's old enough. The sleeping pills cured him (or me would you say? ).
(ps- I know, way too many posts from me as of late. This is my journal. This had to be documented as a milestone.)

How do you know when it is time to Autumnize?

When my "neighba lady" (Traci- no blogger girl) begins her craftiness. And I get to benefit from her. It's hanging on my wall right now. Let the festivities begin. (Is this pumpkin so cute or what?)

I could have a whole LONG post about this neighba lady. I called her from Bakersfield because "someone" during my phone networking (named Sister Waykild) said, "I think there is another LDS family on that same street that you bought your house on. Let me give you a number." And that was how I met Traci. I called asking if she would do a "drive-by" and check out this house that we had pretty much bought off the internet (what were we thinking?). Sure she said (probably thinking, "who does that?"). She asked for the address and then said, "Hey, I think that is the house RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET. Let me go look out my window!". It was an answer to my prayers. She confirmed that the house did exist and was not just a front, but truly dimensional and that we bought in a good location. Yes, I did cry a tear when I had that conversation with her (she was thinking again, "Who does that to a total stranger on the phone?").

And ever since, I now look out my window at her sweet home and am thankful that I have her in my life. She sees me at my best (7am outfit at the bus) and at my worst (7am outifit at the bus). And, I love her. And her taco soup. And her extensions too.

(Okay, and her Dad too. He interviewed Ryan years ago for a calling in San Diego. He owns KFC's and we loved him . And remembered him. And Traci was that "daughter" he was talking about that lived in far off land of Kentucky. It was our destiny to meet.)

Up and At'em

Awake at 5:15. Ready for the day. I guess that means I was too. Back down again at 8:30 in the morning. Folded perfectly in half and with a snore. On with the day for me...

Today a series of events occurred that made me happy:

I picked Emma up this morning and she told me distinctly, " I love you". For the first time. She repeated it to Ryan and we both could not help but smile at her. What words are ever worth more than that? Tanner was at school, it would have been perfect if he were here to have heard it with us.

Landon is not walking yet. But trying. He was pushing around a little wood cart that has 4 wheels and was so excited at himself. He was yelling for us to watch him. Tanner began to cheer for him. "Go little Chubbas!" How could I ever miss this?

I got the opportunity to help someone out in a very minor way today. As I was leaving their home, their sweet little 8ish boy says to me, "Thank you! You really didn't have to. You outdid yourself." What do you say to that? I wanted to say, "Can I do it again everyday for the next week? Just to hear your innocent gratitude and see your sweet little face." I left with such a warm feeling.

Tonight was "Restaurant Night" at our house. Translation: Left-over night. I set the assortment out in as appetizing as a way as I can and then each gets a plate and picks. Like a buffet. (Did I say I am not a fan of leftovers?) As we are eating dinner Ryan asks Tanner what he's going to pay me? (I'm the chef at the restaurant and need to be paid). Tanner says he has no money to pay me and Ryan says that he will have to wash all the dishes then. Tanner started instantly crying. If this were the least of things he cried about throughout his life I would be a happy mom forever.

Daughter of Diane

What could I ever say to my mom to let her know how thankful I am that she had me? How could I ever express how grateful I am that I am HER daughter? What could I ever do for her to equal her gift of life to me? What form of gratitude is ever enough to thank the woman who birthed me and cared for me hours on end and tried her very hardest to love me and teach me how to make right choices?

I know there is never a limit to the gratitude that I can have towards her.

That said, I am turning 29. (No, not 30 yet. I am still savoring my 20's, thank you.) And want to make note of some gifts my mother has in commemoration of my birth:

-My mom has a design flair- she has a great sense of what goes together cosmetically. She can beautify any space- even my first college apartment. She sewed all my bed linens then and I still find that I look to her in times of my "textile" needs now.

- She is highly loyal. She loves all her friends and family deeply. One of her greatest attributes.

- Many know, but she can make an unbelievably awesome dark chocolate cake. She has followers. She is an overall excellent cook. She loved me enough to know that I don't do well with "weird" food and never made me eat it.

- A bargain shopper that often benefits those in her life. She finds a deal and many reap the benefits. And, you would not know it was an "economical" find either.

- She is a great sounding board. I have had concerns about various things throughout my life and she is great at bringing perspective and balance to my thoughts.

- She is willing to serve. I have fond memories of "pixing" (doorbell ditching) and watching her drop this gift or meal off to another. I remember going with her to drop off stake humanitarian kits at the Church Store and feeling so grateful for her and her serving diligently in her calling. She always serves faithfully. And I have always known it's because she has a testimony of the gospel and His hand in her life.

Wouldn't it be nice if I came with all these gifts just because I am hers? I cherish her as my mom, but especially because as I grow older I continue to learn more about her and her capabilities. Happy Birthday to me because of her.

DO I EVER WIN ANYTHING?

Not ever, usually. But today I hit the jackpot! I am a recipient of Mandee Grants "Pay it Forward". She was one of "the chosen" to be interviewed on c janes blog. Her obligation by being highlighted was to "Pay it Forward".
I told her a personal Christmas card would be so perfect. Anyhow, I will eventually post how I will "Pay it Forward"- per the contest rules of course. Lucky me huh?

Plane Peoples

Now that I have a minute, I wanted to mention one of the interesting people I met on the plane this past weekend. As I was wishing Landon would sleep, a motherly woman stopped me and told me she has 13 children and that she cloth diapered them all . She washed diapers first thing in the morning. She dreamt about cloth diapers. And, she had no washer and dryer (except for with the last child).

Now, I can say I did use cloth diapers for about 18 months while in the Caribbean BUT it was pretty much a 3rd world country. There was good justification for it. I was trying to save my husband a pretty penny (or dollar since a single diaper cost more than a buck). And I had an electric washing machine but no dryer. I did line dry, but the sun kept my diapers white and I liked that, except for when it rained, which it did, and then it was a pain to get them dry. This Mom said the same thing, during the winter she had "stiff as a board" cloth diapers from the line. That's how I knew she was telling me the real deal. You don't think about weather and diapers unless you are a user of cloth ones.

If someone went back to the states and had suitcase room, and was really generous as a treat, I would get a package of disposable diapers. But, really, Tanner was a cloth baby down there. And, he was not potty trained faster so the myth goes. But, hey we were in tropical paradise for 2 years of medical school-
But, sometimes I still wished the cruise ships would take me away and back to the states (okay even to Puerto Rico would have been nice. They had a variety of fast food that was absent where we lived).
As for the woman on the plane? Her husband left her for another woman and she raised 13 children in Utah, 4 of which died, then she remarried and her now husband cheated on her too. But, she stayed with him. And, she had no children with him. Good riddance cloth diapers!

Header fixed- removed poll. Thanks for the responses.

Please take my poll!

The girls told me that my header looked totally skewed. I said no way. It's fine on my computer. Well, when I was away I saw my blog on another computer and it was totally skewed. How embarrassing and what the heck? Tell me how it looks on your computer by answering my poll.
(Sorry, but it has to be as a perfect as I can perfectly make it. I feel like I have been caught with my skirt tucked up in the back.) Thanks.

I'm back

I loved being with the girls. These girls that know me so well and I them. I needed the time with them and look forward to the next annual event- maybe without a baby in tow? It was hard to say goodbye but I was anxious to get back as well. Did I say I love each of you?

Ryan took such good care of the homefront. A birthday party was in place for Landon with the cutest car cakes that Ryan made (I thought he bought them). We held his party over til the next day. It was a long trip back and late already when I got in.

Where's My Peeps?

Emma had a slight meltdown this morning while getting ready for the day. I was luckily able to diffuse the bomb before it caused much damage. The whole thing should have been a “no brainer” sense Lacey laid out 5-6 well matched outfits on Emma’s bed prior to her departure. I casually asked Emma what she would like to wear today pointing to the now limited assortment on her bed. She looked at me and said, “Shicken, daddy” (a.k.a. chicken). I politely ignored her comment and proceeded to hand her a purple shirt and pink shorts from the selection before me. She threw the shirt on the ground and in a louder tone exclaimed “Shicken, Daddy!” “Is she referring to an item of clothing?” I asked myself. “Is there something in her wardrobe with poultry on it? Na, she’s 2, she doesn’t know what she’s saying, right?” As I looked at her perplexed, again she cried out, “Shichen”, know starting to lose it. “Think Ryan, what the heck is she talking about… chicken…chicken?” Then it hit me. “Where’s my Peeps?” She did have a shirt with the before mentioned phrase with a little “chick” on the front. But could I find it. I hurried to the armoire frantically ruffling through stacks of nicely folded clothes. I found what I was looking for and revealed this treasure to Emma and her eyes lit up like Christmas morning. She smiled and sighed, “shicken daddy.” Whew! That was a close one. I’m sure Lacey would have known exactly what she wanted the first time she asked, mothers know those things and Emma’s is no exception.

I know what you’re all thinking, “Wow, two entries in two days. What’s his deal?” I had to keep up the blog in Lacey’s absence, she sets a high standard.

The Non-Rebuttal

I want to update all of you that have been concerned about the safety of my self and two of my three children, Tanner and Emma in the absence of our sweet wife and mother. I am pleased to report that the children are fine. Along with the children, no harm has come to my self, our vehicles, nor any Gamestop establishment. No one has been sited for negligence, child endangerment, nor contacted by law enforcement at any time. There was one incident of a garage door being left open until a call was made by a concerned neighbor at 12:30 AM (thanks neighbor). The garage was checked for stay dogs, cats, and migrant farm workers and no harm came of it. I would like to qualify that this is not a rebuttal to a previous entry but an opportunity to inform the public of our wellbeing.

For those of you wandering how the house hold is fairing with out its heart and soul let me report the following statistics:
1. Number of times the dish washer has run: 0 (paper is our friend)
2. Number of times the washing machine has run: 0 (the clothes look clean to me)
3. Number of times the garbage has been thrown out: 0 (except for poopies from Emma)
4. Number of hair styles Emma has had: 1 (it’s hard to be creative with a moving target.)
5. Number of meals made: 3 (including cereal for breakfast)
6. Number of times Emma has had an “accident” in public with out an extra diaper: 2 (sorry sissy.)
7. Number of hours the TV has been tuned-in to a Football game: data unavailable
8. Number of times the phrase “When’s mommy coming home” has been said: Too many to count.
9. A Dad spending the weekend with his two children: Priceless

I like to think of my parenting style as conservative, very conservative.

We miss our wife and mom. She makes every thing better. Come home safe and soon. We need you, Lay. We miss Landon too.

Love Always,
Ryan and two of your three children, Tanner and Emma

Happy Bithday Landon

I'm about gone, but wanted to make sure I posted something for him. How can I adequately express how grateful I was that he came easy for us? Almost unexpectedly and after a 4 year gap between Tanner and Emma, Landon arrived about 17 months behind her. While I was pregnant with him I had a pretty distinct impression that he was a boy and have not been surprised by his "softer" quality. How can I explain it. Yes he does cry and whine (a lot) but, there is a gentleness about him that is dear to my heart. He uses his pointer fingers, was my first real and timely crawler, has the growls of a little boy, is easily startled, needs little sleep, loved nursing (okay he is still nursing, I'm working on it), and at times still holds his legs and feet all wrapped up just like I imagined him inside.

He arrived almost 4 weeks early. My mom came into town in perfect time ( I cannot sing her praises enough) to help with the kids and when THE DAY came Ryan did not really think I was in labor, even at the hospital he stressed to me to not be "disappointed when they send you home". His highly sensitive physician bed-side manner was ever present (I wanted to whack him with the book he was reading). Yet, Landon did come, just 4 short hours later after being admitted. Ryan says he remembers being "exhausted" ( I think it was from his residency work hours?) But I remember seeing Ryan cry with me as we both realized he looked so much like Tanner, but with dark hair. He weighed in at a hefty 9 pounds 3 ounces and pretty immediately it became apparent that he had some sugar tolerance issues. He stayed in the NICU for 13 long days and I have never wanted anything more than to just bring him home. Although it was an exhausting time, we still had my mom here. My mother-in-law and sister Summer and dear friend Stephanie each said, if you need me I will be on a plane RIGHT NOW and family called all the time to check on us. How much every single gesture meant to me from near and far. Landon came to a home that greatly appreciated him and to the arrival of some of the very best family and friends I could not have hand picked better. May he always know it! May he always, always know how loved he is.

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Girls Weekend starts Thursday!

Well, with Landon too.I'm leaving to go to my Aunt Julie's (for those of you that don't know her, she is more like an older sister- just a "bit" older than me.) and to meet my mom and sisters (thanks for the ticket Mom). Looking forward to seeing family in the Bay Area while I'm there. I'll be back on Sunday night (Landon's 1st Birthday). Tanner will be in school and my sweet friend Angela was bullied into helping me with Emma for just part of Thursday and Friday. Ryan can manage the rest of the time- no problem!

Just a short list of things I will gently remind Ryan about:

1. Don't leave the children ALONE in the car (again) that is left in reverse that then rams a Gamestop store at the entrance damaging the front door and scaring our children to DEATH, as well as the attendants in the store, and consequently has cause for the police to come and site you for child endangerment or abandonment with further legal proceedings .
2. Lock the house up when leaving and at night.
3. Feed the kids.
4. Change Emma's diaper- yes I know she is not potty trained yet.
5. Don't lose track of too much time while playing Wii- Tanner does have school on Friday.

Slight name change

I had an "in-house" comment (from someone named Ryan) who said he thought my blog title was LAME. And yes he said this in front of some friends, Ang & Jed. The SHAME. So to appease the king I am no longer, "And the journey goes on..."- okay, I admit, it was a bit cliche. He wanted me to name it "Williams, One Ring to Rule Them All." I said WHAT?- he said, "It's from Lord Of The Rings." So obviously a no go. He's way outvoted. (I know Ang and Jed think that is lame too.)

Check-in out for the day

Almost

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Tanner wrote to 100 today and survived his last filling.

Emma said "Landon spilled!" Referring to the drool coming from his mouth. She wanted to wipe him up too.

And, Emma played "bippity, boppity, boo" with the smoothie straw from her Costco cup today. Berry mess everywhere. But, she distinctly thought she was a fairy godmother, waving her "wand" and singing at the same time.

Almost all clear with the Hand, Foot, Mouth. We still have a touch of a virus or something.

And lastly, I recieved a personal email from THE MANDEE GRANT, whom I don't know but love to read her blog. She made my day! She must have noticed all my page loads or something. And yes, I think there are "famous bloggers" even though Ryan says there is no such thing. Bet me! I'm a forever fan of hers.

Life here

1. Landon still has Hand, Foot, Mouth, Disease, but I can see the rash is getting better and have hopes to be fully recovered by Monday (or Tuesday or Wednesday please).

2. Ryan found out his commitment for Air Force deployments went up to 6 months maximum. That is a big difference from 3 months! I am trying to mentally get my mind around this. I knew when we committed they could do this too. Deployment really won't be a factor for the next 3 years. Maybe the war will end (please).

3. Ryan asked me what I thought about him becoming an allergist. Sounds good to me, and I anxiously look forward to the day when we decide what he is going to be (soon please!).

4. My MPV van came out of the shop with just $140 in work. What a relief. Just hang on little van (please).

5. The Air Force is giving significant raises. They effect us in 2 years (sooner please).

6. I want to go on a sisters weekend the end of September to San Jose, CA, but Ryan works night float (meaning all nights for 2 full weeks) and I don't know who could watch all my kids and get Tanner off to school and deal with Landon up through the night still. I look forward to the day when we are closer to family (please!).

7. Landon climbed up all the stairs to the second story without any warning. He surprised Ryan, who had gone up to change clothes and had left him safely at the bottom. Must keep the gates closed until he learns how to go down now (please).

8. Tanner has his last filling this week. It will be his very last in his whole life (pretty please with a cherry on top).

Tagged- The Beginnings of Ryan and Lacey

Oh geez, I was tagged by Melissa Mort. (thanks lady!)
The abbreviated version minus the drama-

1. Where did you meet your husband?
At a Northern California young single adult conference. He traveled up from Fresno with some cousins and a few girls and I went, just returning that day from a trip to Utah, and being prompted by my mom to “just go” when I otherwise would not have. It was being hosted where I lived, in Fremont.
2. What was the first thing you said to your husband?
”Uhm, (looking at my friend) I think he just asked you to dance.” Nope, he had asked me. Awkward.
3. Where was your first date?
The conference was 2 days. We went to the movie “At First Sight” and had Jamba Juices right after.
4. Where was your first kiss?
How embarrassing to say. That night. Going into the movie. He kissed me. (Emma better never!)
5. Did you have a long or short engagement/courtship?
We met January 20th and were engaged 6 weeks later on March 5th.
6. Where did you get engaged?
On his families farm in Sanger (just outside Fresno). I arrived to flowers and a note that prompted me to go to up and down the street (most of his Aunts and there families live there) and find the right uncle or right barn for the next clue. By the time the last clue came around I had the cutest gathering of half a dozen of his little cousins following along with me. They sent me into the field and sat up on the fence and watched from the distance as Ryan got down on one knee. I have very distinct memories of looking back to those little cousins and watching them cheer and clap.
7.Where did you get married?
At the temple in Oakland, California on June 25, 1999.
8. How did the reception go?
My family worked really hard. We had a lunch (great Chinese food catered) earlier in the day with family and then that night it was a garden ice cream social theme at my parents historic home in Los Altos, CA. We had a vintage ice cream cart and a serious dance party. Really. We left running through sparkler smoke to our hotel in San Francisco.
9. How was the honeymoon?
We went to Cabo San Lucas. 5 days there in Mexico. Ryan got sick on the food from our one “nice dinner out” and I’m not one to love international “ flava” so much. But, great memories.

Okay, I tag:
little sis Melissa
Stephanie Holladay
cousin Lori

Fess up ladies! Can you feel the love?

Hand, Foot, Mouth Disease

Landon has it. You can read more about it HERE. Sorry to anyone that has been around us and has been exposed. We know... we are black listing ourselves for a while.

Mom Sings It Right

You will smile at this. (thanks spackman)

It's a brand new year

Tanner started 1st Grade Wednesday. We only missed the morning bus once- out of 3. Pretty good for our first week. 7:10am call.

I'd like to blame this little darling.

She was sick with the flu and I was up with her and Landon (who was not sick) and by morning she was tucked in right next to me in bed and I so did not want to wake her. Her Dad took care of the morning routine with Tanner, hence the missed bus.

Emma too starts school. A preschool swap. YES, I know. I SAID I was going to say no. But the head leader (love Vicky) is all too persuasive and my "NO" did not come out so strong. But, the group of moms I am to be working with are organized and organized and organized. 6 cuties to the group. 5 week rotation. I can manage. Hey, did I mention I am in the nursery. The Junior. 12ish kids. Yah- I can manage half that at my own home. Can I?

Psssst

I would love to hear how the Williams family vacation went. I know the party went on without us- I keep checking your blogs for pictures...

Is it a conspiracy? Come on guys, give up some pictures or something- I promise you FREE medical consultations.

More Out of Towners

My family leaves tomorrow. We have gone to Mammoth Caves, had ice cream at Graetars, played at the parks, hunted for fireworks, played WII, watched Zac show us his acting skills from Summer Camp, had a yummy TRUE Sunday dinner including Mom's Chocolate Cake, jumped on the tramp with the sprinkler running AND my kids have loved having them here. Tanner wants to go back with them.

I have loved hearing of their experiences and seeing the pictures of places they have gone (check out The Adventurers soon to come awesome slide show). It will be a sad sad day when there truck pulls away tomorrow. Westward they go!

Tanner survived 3 of the 4 cavities being filled- the 4th to be done soon. He starts 1st grade on Wednesday. Ryan goes back to work and starts his month of research. I guess Summer's over. Back to some semblance of routine for me.

The Financer, Doctor, and Marketer

What could make three grown professional men jump like wild banshees? This.

It's a giant pillow. And I mean GIANT. I wish I had a better camera to show it off. That is not me on the pillow, but I did take my turn.

You can find this fun in Starlight, Indiana, about 45 minutes from our house. You can pick seasonal fruits at this great family farm. But, our intention quite honestly, was the Pillow. Well worth it and great company with the Golds and Smiths (we love them!)

Ryan in pre-flip stance... Amy Smith (I promise it's not me) bouncing all the kids off...
Our family arrives tomorrow. I think my brothers will like it. As well as the corn, rope and bamboo mazes, and mountain slide that is so fast! Come see us! We'll take you there!

Vacation

Hang On (to the ear)

And, don't let go (of the hands)

Ryan is on official vacation. We went here for an outing. It was an all day adventure. Really hot and humid. We mined from the sluice bag bought from the store there. Tanner came home with gems of all sorts- all "real gold" and priceless in his eyes.

We have a list of things to attack the next week or so, as well as a visit from these awesome adventurers. But, Tanner and his fillings comes tomorrow. Ryan's assignment.

(ps- Ryan's name has come up for Chief Resident! No surprise to me, lots of factors, but such an honor. Too bad he has still not determined WHAT he wants to specialize in. Lately, he's gone through GI to Oncologist, the latter specialty spot was somewhat offered to him here at UofL. He is now thinkin Pulmonary Critical Care. A lung doctor. He has research lined up for this for the whole month of September. Maybe, just maybe, he's found his spot? I hope- )